I have to say, my server is performing beyond my initial expectations! I think I have everything tweaked to not use massive amounts of RAM (*cough*MySQL*cough*.) Here’s how the free -m currently looks:

$ free -m
             total       used       free     shared    buffers     cached
Mem:           121         90         31          0          2         46
-/+ buffers/cache:         41         80
Swap:         1121         14       1107

As you can see, it’s doing pretty good. I’ve even upped the maximum simultaneous Apache connections since it seems to be able to handle that a better now (rather then bringing the server to its knees when something like 10-15 people tried to access it at once.) This has truly been a pleasant experience. Even though I’ve setup servers before, this one was a bit of a challenge for something like a blog powered by PHP because of the RAM constraints. Frankly things seem to be working beautifully and I couldn’t be happier.